OK, Iâ€™m sure half of you are laughing at the very title of this article â€“ camping?! With an infant, crawler or toddler? The little humans that are nothing if not predictably unpredictable? Noooothankyou.
Wait, waitâ€¦come back. Weâ€™ll break this down and Iâ€™ll see if I can convince you. Because maybe thereâ€™s some little part of your pre-baby self that does want to sleep beneath the towering evergreens, the scent of fir and campfire enveloping your soul.
(I know, I said the word â€œcampfireâ€ and now all you can think about is your toddler playing with the embers.)
We took both kids camping at an early age â€“ my daughter at 8 months on Mt. Rainier and my son starting at 12 months, on the Hood Canal. Iâ€™ve compiled a list of recommendations and tips from myself and Jennifer Aist, blogger at Wilderness for Kids and author of the excellent Babes in the Woods: Hiking, Camping & Boating with Babies and Young Children.
1. Try the tent. Camp in the glory of your own backyard, just to give your family a trial run. Some children have easy-to-transition personalities that wonâ€™t screech at a new sleeping spot. Others â€“ well â€“ letâ€™s hear a story from Kelowna, BC-based mom Bobbie-Sue Menard, whose first four kids slept well in tents between 12-24 months. Then her fifth child put the established pattern to the test.
â€œMy last baby pitched a high- frequency panicked fit at the top of his lungs on our first camping trip â€“ at 3. a.m.,â€ Menard says. â€œSince we were surrounded by hundreds of tenters in Banff national park who were being woken up to the sound of screaming baby at 3 a.m., Baby and I slept sitting up with babe sprawled across my chest inside the van for the next three nights.â€ It happens. (We’ll hear more from Menard later in the week — this woman rocks the camping trip)
2. Pick the perfect campground. â€œIf you are unsure about this whole camping thing, choose a campground that has resources nearby like a grocery store, restaurant or maybe even a hotel,â€ says Aist. I recommend staying no more than an hour from home, only so you can beat a hasty retreat if necessary (see point #1 above).
Even if you were an avid, hardcore backpacker before kids, don’t beat yourself up for taking the car-camping or “glamping” route with little ones. I hold off on the backpacking, at least until kids can help carry items back and forth to the car. However, other families certainly pull can this off with panache. (If you’re a backpacking-with-babies family, I’d love to hear from you)
Aist points out that busy campgrounds can be stressful; smaller campgrounds offer a calmer environment for young children. I prefer campgrounds stocked with additional attractions, such as a lake, beachfront or easy hiking trails. My other must-haves include running water — it makes for easier clean-up of easy-mess infants — and modern flush toilets. Pit toilets can be intimidating (and mega stinky) for adults, much less a potty-training toddler.
3. Select your site carefully. Avoid sites near rivers or lakes (to prevent wandering catastrophes), entrance/exit points for the campground (too much car traffic), or even a site without much privacy.Â â€œPick a site that backs up to the woods rather than another campsite so you won’t fret over keeping your neighbors up all night with a fussing baby,â€ Aist says.
If youâ€™re with a potty-training kid, sites near the bathroom and running water are solid options; bringing along a portable pottyÂ isnâ€™t such a bad idea either (we brought aÂ Babybjorn Potty Chair).
4. Pack right. â€œToddlers are very sensitive to their routines,” Aist says. “Keep the routines going even when you are camping,â€ and incorporate expected customs around sleep, comfort, food and play. Pack favorite snacks (Cheerios, Goldfish crackers), beloved stuffed animals, books they can practically recite from memory, Tylenol for teething infants and a camping lamp that can run all night (if your child loves his bedroom nightlight). One note — if you do use cloth diapers, you might think about switching to disposable or Gdiapers for the duration of your camping trip. Or figure out a good solution for dealing with dirty dipes (stay-dry stuff sacks are a good option).
To keep baby out of the fire or food prep area, use a pack â€˜nâ€™ play-type playpen from home, which can double as a nap and nighttime solution. â€œDaytime naps are critical to good night sleep,â€ Aist says, so don’t skimp on this part. With a baby monitor, you can listen in on your tent-napping babe, while you relax with a book by the fire.
5. Sleep tight. â€œFor small tents, the pea pods (example:Â KidCo PeaPod Portable Self Inflating Travel Bed – Lime)Â are popular,â€ Aist says. She also recommends bag doubles like the Functional DesignSleeping Bag Expander for co-sleepers — the expanders make one parent’s sleeping bag wider, so baby can snuggle in with you.
Another option (our familyâ€™s choice) was to cosleep on a queen-size air mattress, bringing sheets, pillows and a lightweight-but-superwarm blanket along with us (I love our woolÂ Pendleton Blanket— 10 years old and often all we need on a camping trip). We dressed ourselves warmly and outfitted our daughter in aÂ fleece bunting, (like this Columbia Snowtop II Bunting) so she stayed warm all night — even after kicking off the covers. The bunting also served as a warm romper during a chilly alpine morning.
Before bedtime, remember what we mentioned about routines. â€œLook at your home bedtime routine and see how you can modify it in the field,â€ Aist says. â€œFor example, if you read a book before bed at home, do it in the tent too. If you use a white noise machine at home, download a white noise app for your iPod and play it in the tent.â€ Donâ€™t skimp on the pre-bedtime snack or feeding, and donâ€™t keep your baby up late hoping theyâ€™ll be so pooped theyâ€™ll pass out. â€œPut them down for bed before they are overtired,â€ Aist suggests.
6. Reframe “camping.” The pace is slower, and there won’t be as much sitting around, reading magazines and books or chilling out by the fire — except during naptime. You may have to plan activities for your toddler or spend more time entertaining them, as on an airplane — but without someone glaring from the seat in front.
Order a book on local flora and fauna (we use National Audubon Society Field Guide to the Pacific Northwest), as toddlers enjoy identifying and naming objects — why not the stinging nettle (ouch) or huckleberry? A few more fun toddler-ready ideas: Heading out on a trail ramble, looking for crabs (under rocks) at the beach, using a magnifying glass to get up-close to bugs, throwing rocks into the lake and collecting seashells. Playing with some of the food-prep equipment is always a great option – a toddler, a small fry pan, a tin cup and a spoon can last longer than you’d think. You could even bring a few toy trucks from home for hauling pebbles.
7. Â Worst case scenario. We know what this looks like. Your infant or toddler hates camping. She hates being cold, she hates the weird noises and she really, really hates that icky campfire smell. You have a few options â€“ pack it up and go home (we know people whoâ€™ve done this), sit in the car with your baby until she calms down orâ€¦.pack it up and go home.
But don’t give up on the idea yet. There’s always next year, when the kids are a little older and more flexible.
â€œThe benefits of getting kids outside far outweigh a bad night’s sleep,â€ Aist says.